HOW TO MAKE PRIENDS WITH THE FRENCH

       A cure for Parisians' brusque, haughty reputation may be at hand. Take a website, ad a hint of anise based pastis liqueur, a game of petanque and international travellers ready to mingle.
       Two young entrepreneurs are introducing visitors to paris life a la francaise.
       On a recent evening, they brought out hte pastis, some water to mix it with, fruit juice and Coca-Cola for an international happy hour al fresco. With the Eiffel Tower in the backgroud, people opened snacks and bottles and started chatting.
       Remi Brichant, 25, and Guillaume Giler, 24, launched a website in May that organises social events, www.EnjoyOurParis.com. the idea came from a personal travel experience.
       When Giler studied abroad in Australia a few years ago, he was put in touch with a local student who showed him around his new campus and introduced him to people.
       Brichant and Giler thought Paris should have similar service and decided to take the concept further by creating special events where international visitors could meet Parisians to talk, share and just have fun. In a few months, some 600 members signed up.
       "In Paris there are so many foreigners, and Parisians are known to be difficult to meet," says Giler.
       As the sun set and the evening light grew pink, a group of aproximately 20 people formed around the table, introducing themselves to one another, mostly in English or French.
       Aurelie Bernos, 25, poured drinks. She grew up in Paris and lived in Australia for a year while in school.
       "It's fun - there are always new people," she said.
       She brought along a work colleague, Fabien Huett, 28, from southern France, who lived in Paris for eight yers. Like the participants from faraway lands, he said it has been difficult for him to meet Parisians.
       Marcus Grambau, 24, was on a two-month visit in Paris from Melbourne.
       "I didn't want to spedn two months here alone," he said. the first event Grambau attended was on Bastille Day.
       For the national holiday, Brichant hostd a party at his parents' apartment, which has a view of the Eiffel Tower, When the firworks set off from the Parisiam landmark, the international group had one of the best seats in the city to watch the show.
       "If I hadn't joined the group, I would have been standing in the crowd like everyone else," Grambau said.
       Since meeting up with the EnjoyOurParis.com crowd, he's made friends with three Franch people and regularly meets them for drinks and dinner.
       On the pastis evening, Grambau and the rest of the group played petanque, Frqance's version of bocce ball. Brichant and Giler randomly drew names to decide what the teams would be.
       "We try to put them with people they don't know," Brichant explained.
       On one side of the field, Perrine Le Guern, a 24-year old pastry cook from the northwestern city of Rennes, teamed up with Milli Bruck, 26, who ws visiting from Germany. Bernos teamed with Harry Krakhofer, 23, visiting from Austria.
       With the help of Le Guern, who translated into English, Parisian Augustin Fabre explained the rules, Brichant and Giler kept track of scores, but the focus was clearly not on who won.
       BIENENUE!
       Signs up at http://Fr.EnjoyOurParis.com and fill out the questionnaire. Check what interests you - cultural, food, or nighttime events are some of the categories.
       Once logged in, you'll be able to see the calendar and who has signed up. Brichant and Giler also send our a weekly e-mail newsletter to let people know what events are coming up.
       Aperitifs are free and participants can bring something to eat or drink. However, some events have a fee and the online calendar will mention the price.